My stomach is always round and bloated ,as if i am pregnant. I have pain most days and have severe cramps and vaginal muscle cramps/contractions during my period. I also bleed a lot. I eat healthy,take multivitamins and drink water and no sodas or fruit drinks just fruits and veggies. I know most people have flatter stomachs even those who don. It's difficult for him to get turned on when he is questioning whether or not you two will even last. If you notice a sudden decrease in sex, maybe bigger issues in your relationship need to be worked on. 4. He has performance anxiety. Maybe your boyfriend feels like he's unable to please you. 9. Your friends think your S.O. sucks. Chatting with friends should be fun and easy. If you're doing mental gymnastics to avoid dropping your bae's name and incurring the wrath of your friends.